Live chat with money management expert
#1
Posted 05 August 2010 - 12:59 PM
On Thursday August 19 at 2pm, Sarah Murphy will be on RethinkTalk for at least an hour to answer questions about money management, coping with low income and benefits, etc.
Sarah is an expert in money management, and especially around issues that are likely to concern people affected by mental illness.
If you post your question below, she will try to answer as many as possible on the day.
Make sure you visit here at 2pm on Thursday August 19 to ask follow-up questions and so on.
In the meantime, please also fill in our survey on money management issues - http://www.surveymon...http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/moneyadvice
Chris
#2
Posted 05 August 2010 - 01:31 PM
#3
Posted 05 August 2010 - 02:56 PM
What if i sais combatting isolation requires money, even going to college requires buying course materials and anyway the coure i was interested in has been cut, there is an intensive version intended to prepare you for work, but it's too intensive for me
I have a feeling that the next time i go out for a meal is when i go with my family for my aunts 80th, that will be the next time i meet my family
There is the shape disabled ticket scheme for london theatres but theres cuts in that and the tickets cost, guess i could go with a free volunteer instead of paying for this women friends ticket, we've had a row over money as i felt she was poncing off me and she's the only supportive friend i've got, theres a no of mentally ill friends but they are always asking for suport and when i ask suddenly the phone is put down
I doubt rethinks got much experience of people like me living alone, yes we're dusted of at christmass, the christmass alone loony is a good fund raiser but theres no services aimed at me, money advice the sort of crap social workers been paid far more come up with
#5
Posted 05 August 2010 - 04:17 PM
This post has been edited by Chris - Rethink: 09 August 2010 - 12:37 PM
Reason for edit: edited to reflect moving threads to new forum
#7
Posted 05 August 2010 - 04:34 PM
What if so far cameron hasn't been able to shame my family into caring for me as he said in some speech, i've asked mental health workers to speak to my family but they refuse, you bet if it was some carer asking them to speak to their sufferer it'd be done like greased lightening
What if you've avoided the mental health system all your life, like one women i know you've never been fit for work, but can't get the benefits without the appropiate references, a version of my first question
What if as it is your having to say you can't cook a meal to have the money to afford the ingrediants to cook a meal, the price of protein has gone up, your eating more and more carbohydrates as they're cheap and it's making you put on weight
What if you see these benefit fraud people in the news and you've exagerated your physical problems to get the benefits, because the system concentrates on physical and you wonder whether that could be construed as fraud
#8
Posted 05 August 2010 - 05:38 PM
I do think its a good idea and hopefully someone will get help from this but given the current reality and uncertainty for those on welfare its nigh on impossible to know where we stand.
#9
Posted 05 August 2010 - 07:52 PM
Also, as we go away for 6 weeks, do I have to inform the DLA people or incapacity benefit people?
Thanks, mld
#10
Posted 08 August 2010 - 11:25 AM
Secondly, I'm on old style incapacity benefit, dla and income support. When can I expect to be moved over to ESA and if I were fortunate enough to fall into their support category, will the amount be the same as I currently get from the IB and IS or should I expect to receive less?
Thirdly, if I am told I am fit to work and I decide to appeal the decision, will I receive any benefits whilst waiting for the appeal to go through?
Sorry to ask so many questions. Great idea though Chris so thanks for the opportunity.
#11
Posted 08 August 2010 - 11:29 AM
yorkiegal, on 08 August 2010 - 12:25 PM, said:
Secondly, I'm on old style incapacity benefit, dla and income support. When can I expect to be moved over to ESA and if I were fortunate enough to fall into their support category, will the amount be the same as I currently get from the IB and IS or should I expect to receive less?
Thirdly, if I am told I am fit to work and I decide to appeal the decision, will I receive any benefits whilst waiting for the appeal to go through?
Sorry to ask so many questions. Great idea though Chris so thanks for the opportunity.
Good question.
If all else fails & I'm left with no financial means of supporting myself - then is it a viable option to do what Rambo suggests doing?; (Stop all meds & go on a crime/murder spree? & then be looked after by the state; in secure accommodation).
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#12
Posted 08 August 2010 - 02:29 PM
Any money coming in your supposed to declare, i'm not sure whether your allowed 6k in savings or 8k, every 250 above that you lose 1 pound of benefit
They can't check everything they haven't the staff, some money that was paid in yrs ago they probably won'y know about unless someone tells them and directs them to it
they found out about my savings because the account i was having benefits paid into, ironically the money ws backdated money they awarded me, they started asking for bank statements, one was when my dads funeral in brum happened and there were birmingham payments so the next list of things you had to declare had highlighted any property other than the property your living in
#15
Posted 10 August 2010 - 11:47 AM
Chris - Rethink, on 10 August 2010 - 12:35 PM, said:
Not me. I was offered a loan upto £6000 by my bank because of my good track record ealier in the year. Irresponsible of them and I turned it down even though the interest was fixed rate and quite reasonable.
Don't owe squit. I'm better off than many folks in work I guess?
#16
Posted 10 August 2010 - 05:12 PM
Chris - Rethink, on 10 August 2010 - 11:35 AM, said:
Yes. I have a student loan which I defaulted on years ago and then moved address so they've never caught up with me. I have no idea how much I owe them. The daft thing is that I was eligible to defer payments but was poorly when it came to form filling time so left it too late.
Secondly, I owe a couple of grand to the electric company. When I moved into this flat I didn't understand how the heating system worked and left the emersion on constantly. Because I had a phobia about letting people into the flat, my meter wasn't read for 5 years, so the emersion carried on. I sent a doctors letter to them explaining my mental health problems and that I'd be on disability payments from now on. They ignored it and I'm paying them back £2 per week for ever.
I probably have several other old small debts which might get sold on at some point, such as BT, but they haven't hassled me for a few years now so I'm just ignoring it. I haven't been on the electoral roll for 8 yrs which helps a lot. It's not like I ever want to apply for credit again.
I manage pretty well now on a week to week basis, but like a lot of people on benefits, it would only take one big bill or a suspension of the benefits to plunge me straight into dire straits again.
#17
Posted 10 August 2010 - 05:26 PM
#18
Posted 10 August 2010 - 05:42 PM
I particularly resent my mother holding the fact i have these small small savings against me, i think she and her cronies have been listening to too much goverment propoganda
These savings, an emergency like a move, you don't have long to move, goverment targets don't allow housing assoca to leave flats empty for long, it can take weeks to negotiate a loan from the dwp crisis fund and as i've said they've closed my case
If people must know, my friends are worried, i'm worried and yesterday when i phoned up for a repeat prescription i asked for some extra propananol, it's prn or used to be but i'm feeling i'll need it to cope with the anxiety or rather if something comes up to cope with it whilst feeling anxious
Just had someone who's facing eviction due to rent arrears due to diverting the rent asking me for money and yes saying i've got these savings
#19
Posted 12 August 2010 - 11:39 AM
My financial worries are severe, often times literally running out of money altogether two or three weeks before payday and struggling to fuel my car which I need to do my job and buy suitable food, havent purchased any new clothes or bought any household items in two years. I feel somewhat that I have done the right thing in tackling positively my mental health issues, got myself back from unemployment and benefits and am contributing to society despite suffering bouts of psychosis and depression.
I understand that many people will regard this as being nothing to complain about, but the fact is, financially, I am far worse off than many people who perhaps are unable to drive forward a recovery and live on benefits. My main concern is that the stress and worry over money does, and has in fact, make me ill.... and I have had to have time off work due to depression and anxiety entirely caused by my money concerns.
Is there any help I can get financially, I am above the usual thresholds for housing benefit, council tax benefit and do not receive any financial considerations for maintenance payments or costs of looking after my children when they stay with me. I have been receiving tax credits but these have stopped now as again I am above the threshold for a single man.
I have never claimed financial assistance as regards my mental health, apart from a very short period when I was deemed unable to work and put onto ESA about 18 months ago. I am beginning to feel that the ultimate goal of recovery and employment leaves you totally alone, with no real practical support.. seems to me I am saving the tax payer a lot of money...but putting my health at risk again..with no benefit to me at all.
Hope you can suggest some things I could try.

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