[eyewashere]

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[manic666]

Its nice to be important , but more important to be nice , your nice mias babylove

[ChrisB]

manic666, on 27 April 2012 - 07:01 PM, said:

Its nice to be important , but more important to be nice , your nice mias

Well said Sir!!

[Olivia - Rethink]

Ah Mias - all best wishes for Gypsy. Let us know how things go. One things is clear she's very loved and I'm sure she can tell that even if you can't explain anything else.

[mias]

Hi all of you lovely people. If I could hand pick some friends it would certainly be you lot.. Sorry for late reply, it's been a long day... She has been kept in and all being well she will come home tomorrow. It is SO weird without her, I don't think I will have more dogs, it is way too painful when they are ill let alone losing them. My last love of my life was diabetic for the last few years of his life, 2 injections a day. He did live to about 15 though. A good age for a dog although I heard on the radio that they really should live a lot longer than they do with the right diet etc! Bit like us I guess! Hey, I do hope everyone elses week/day has been a good one? (((X)))'s Thanks again for being you.

[Deleted Member]

mias, on 27 April 2012 - 09:48 PM, said:

Hi all of you lovely people. If I could hand pick some friends it would certainly be you lot.. Sorry for late reply, it's been a long day... She has been kept in and all being well she will come home tomorrow. It is SO weird without her, I don't think I will have more dogs, it is way too painful when they are ill let alone losing them. My last love of my life was diabetic for the last few years of his life, 2 injections a day. He did live to about 15 though. A good age for a dog although I heard on the radio that they really should live a lot longer than they do with the right diet etc! Bit like us I guess! Hey, I do hope everyone elses week/day has been a good one? (((X)))'s Thanks again for being you.

hi mias hope you and gypsy ok

[mias]

mias, on 22 June 2011 - 11:08 PM, said:

Thank you for your kind thoughts.

It is at a time like this that you find out who cares.

She passed away today.

I can not believe this was a year ago. Time has passed too quickly. I have send letters and cards to my uncle almost every week since. He is coping but he loved her so very much, any woman would be lucky to be loved half as much.
Now, looking at this blog, I can see when and why I have been struggling with some things these last months. Silly me, I could not see it. Just one of those straws too many. (Yet again)!

[Olivia - Rethink]

Hi Mias,

All the best for you all and your uncle today. and that's nice that you're able to look back on things differently.

I think it's such a lovely idea that you write to your uncle each week too.

Olivia

[Aladinsane]

Hi Mias, Im so very sorry to learn of your loss and you are in my thoughts.

Aladinsane.

[mias]

No, there really is no easy way through this. I came on tonight to get some bad news off my mind but now I am here I just don't feel like talking. Yep, there really is no easy way through this life.

[Pentomino]

Oh Mias,

I don't know what to say. I've just seen all this. I need a day or two to think of some better words.

Perhaps just the briefest words are the best - and I can hardly find even these - just that i think you're a titan in strength, angel in heart.

Thoughts are with you. But above all for all this journey, the plethora of kind words you find, really do have an impact - please, Mias remember this also in the long journey of what you go through.

I've struggled to find adequate words. The best I can find and I hope you will forgive the searing inadequacy of these words - is that you really are the great godsend on this forum. Your comments on my poems have always been so so valued and are really appreciated.

Take care, and I'm sorry I've come so late to this post. How is it that some people can simply be made of such beautiful goodness. Do take care, Mias.

I will read the pages on this post again tomorrow. Thoughts.

[mld]

Oh Mias, there are no words from me other than hugs (((((Mias))))).

M.

[janty]

Big hugs and kisses from me Mias. Thinking about you. Here if you need me xxxxxx

[Pentomino]

Mias,

It's always been part of my own illness that I've always had difficulty in being able to break out of my solid shell and feel empathy for other people. My emotions have always been self-centred at the root, and yet the awful awful trauma of what has happened to your family and your life is so upsetting that I no longer cry from within the space inside my head - I really feel so deeply saddened and moved by your experiences, your suffering and your strength.

Such things change me - the way I look out at life and view it. It's totally altered my outlook. It's changed me completely as a person. It might easily be the most vital catalyst to 'wake me up' to the suffering of others - so vivid is the writing in your posts - and help me to accept life as it stands.

It's also helped me to really appreciate life - simply and serenely for all the good things that there are in my life, and which I've been foolish to not have been more thankful of in the past.

You've always posted to ask how I am. Having read through these pages, I really do hope that I can be a better listener in the future. I really did have no idea how much you have had to cope with over the years. Please take care x

[mias]

Hello my virtual friends. You know what, just knowing that there are good and kind people in the world 'out there' like you, means an awful lot to me. I will one day re read this thread and remind myself of this long journey of mine and re visit the lovely comments received.Thank you for your amazingly kind words, and Pen, your kind words are not surprisingly poetic and have beauty.What would I do without you all.I will carry on, it is all any of us can do. Hard though sometimes aint it!Yours,Mias x

[Defiant_fighter]

Hey Mias

Thank you for few kind words earlier, yeah there are kind people about, restores a bit of faith in people, especialy when you feel your trying hard to do something you know is difficult,whatever that may be. I think all of us here have long, terrifying (at times), tough and trying journeys, i get what you meant in earlier post essentially saying you can only fight so much, and we are all rooting for you, just like you and tried for me and host of others i'm sure

FIGHT ON Mias! yeah! Defiant

[mias]

Fight on Yes, I will. Thanks Defiant.

[mias]

Well, I didn't want to say anything but have been worried about my Mother as every 6 months she has a scan to check the cancer has not returned. She recently had the scan and the wait for results gets harder as the hosp app day draws nearer.
She has just had results and for now all is clear. YAY

Just thought I would share. A little bit of good goes a long way

[Olivia - Rethink]

Yay! Really pleased to hear that Mias. What good news! Thank you for sharing It must be such a relief to have heard she had the all clear.

[mias]

It is lovely.
It believe it cannot actually be 'cured' but they can keep it from coming back instead. We haven't always been as fortunate before and the Chemo can be horrible.
This time - .